Biblical Love
Where’s the Love?
part 1

After watching Christian people for about 25years I am frequently forced to ask the question, “Where the love?” Remember the old woman in the hamburger joint commercial? While many Christians feel that love is actually on the rise within the church, in reality, love is had in such small proportions as to be virtually undetectable. I understand that many Christians who read this might protest that, while the church as a whole may be lacking in love, they are in fact full of love and that their own church is also full of loving people. My response to that reaction would be to point out that I am not referring to a love that is a nebulous fog of sentimentality, good thoughts, well-wishing, and gift-giving but to a Biblically defined love. Biblical love is always manifested in very specific verifiable ways and these objective signposts are virtually missing from today’s Christian circles.
I hope that Christians who read this will not be offended, but instead be motivated to read further and then Biblically evaluate their own claim to love. To help us evaluate whether or not we truly, Biblically, love it is vital that we spend time looking at Biblical love by asking and then answering these few questions.

· How important is it for to Christians love?
· What is Biblical love?
· How do Christians begin to love others in a Biblical way?

How important is it for Christians to love Biblically?

This is a very important question. After all if it is not important for Christians to love Biblically why worry about it? If love is not important why be motivated to evaluate the extent of it in our lives?

John 13:35
“By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.”

By making this statement Jesus is elevating love to a status unequalled by any other attribute. Love for one another is the one thing that will tell the world that we are the Disciples of Christ. When Paul was reciting the reasons he was thankful for the Thessalonians one of the reasons he gave was their love.

1 Thessalonians 1:2-3
We give thanks to God always for all of you, making mention of you in our prayers; constantly bearing in mind your work of faith and labor of love and steadfastness of hope in our Lord Jesus Christ in the presence of our God and Father,

The Thessalonians labors were labors motivated by their love. Our love for each other is a mirror of our love for Christ. Jesus said these words.

Matthew 25:40
“And the King will answer and say to them, ‘Truly I say to you, to the extent that you did it to one of these brothers of Mine, even the least of them, you did it to Me.’

If we were to try to define God, one of the ways to do that is say, “God is love” (1 John 4:8). Because God is love, anyone born of God will, by definition, love.

1 John 4:7-14
Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. 8 The one who does not love does not know God, for God is love. 9 By this the love of God was manifested in us, that God has sent His only begotten Son into the world so that we might live through Him. 10 In this is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins. 11 Beloved, if Go so loved us, we also ought to love one another. 12 No one has beheld God at any time; if we love one another, God abides in us, and His love is perfected in us. 13 By this we know that we abide in Him and He in us, because He has given us of His Spirit. 14 And we have beheld and bear witness that the Father has sent the Son to be the Savior of the world.

How important is it for Christians to love others, especially brothers and sisters in the faith? It is vital. If we do not love others it says more about us than it does the ones we find it difficult or impossible to love. It is after all the definition of Godly love to love the unlovable.

Matthew 5:43-48
“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor, and hate your enemy.’ “But I say to you, love your enemies, and pray for those who persecute you in order that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven; for He causes His sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. “For if you love those who love you, what reward have you? Do not even the tax-gatherers do the same? “And if you greet your brothers only, what do you do more than others? Do not even the Gentiles do the same? “Therefore you are to be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect.

So go out and love! Be perfect in your love as your Father in heaven is perfect. Next time we will answer the question what is Biblical love? What does love look like when it is practiced?